During his divorce, after drinking too much vodka and a call with a therapist who advised him to "journal his feelings," Matthew Fray started a blog. He needed to understand how his ex-wife, once a loving college freshman, had become so angry and left him. As he reflected on his marriage, he realized that while he was a decent guy, he had been a bad husband.
As Matthew shared his raw, humorous stories about his failed marriage, he gained a following. In January 2016, his post "She Divorced Me Because I Left the Dishes by the Sink" went viral, reaching over 4 million readers.
In This Is How Your Marriage Ends, Matthew reveals that many relationships fail because we lack the skills to maintain them. He argues that even with good intentions, we can alienate our partners. Blending humor with practical advice, the book helps readers identify and break harmful relationship patterns. It's essential reading for anyone, no matter the stage of their relationship.